Feng Shui Chic

Connie calls it wabi sabi, and I call it feng shui, and although you might not be familiar with these terms, everyone reading this knows what’s meant by the “feel” of a house…or home. In some situations, you get the cold pricklies when you cross the threshold, and in another place, you feel that the atmosphere is charged with hostility and underlying negative energy currents. Other places feel boring, sterile, and devoid of life and laughter. You know what I mean, right?


About twenty years ago, I heard an older, wiser woman talk about the importance of one’s bedroom in influencing mood, sleep, and general restfulness (or not). She said that since the décor, including wall color and furnishings, was the last thing a person saw before shutting her eyes and the first things she glimpsed upon opening them the next morning, the sight should be pleasant, beautiful, and calming. Call me dumb, but I’d never thought of this before. Never. And yet it made perfect sense. That weekend I began looking at paint chips and later repainted the room and changed the curtains. That was the beginning of a long term and continuing interest in the power of the environment to affect mood, peace of mind, and energy.


About ten years ago, I was introduced to the Chinese concept of feng shui, two words that literally mean wind and water. By applying some of its principles, I learned that a person could easily add more positive energy (chi) into her environment and lessen the effects of negative energy (sha). This made perfect sense to me, especially when you consider that electromagnetic energy flows around and through us and everything else in the universe.


I’ll have to concur with my friend Connie in that some of the terms can be a bit overwhelming, but learning and applying some of the basics can be fun, easy, and low cost. Although I’m no expert, I do have a few favorite ideas:


  • Color is important, and red is a “fire” color associated with energy. While I don’t want to feel over stimulated and fidgety, having a touch of red or orange in each room is invigorating. 
  • Numbers are important too. Off the top of my head, I recall that the number four is foundational, secure, safe, and stable since it holds the energy pattern of the square. Once we lived in a house in which the kitchen was a little small, and yet we usually ate our meals in there. To free up more space, the kitchen table was usually pushed up against the wall, and my daughter Carrie literally hated that arrangement. Rarely did she walk through the room without commenting on it. Largely to pacify her, I moved the table out a bit and put a chair on each side. The difference that one little move made was amazing! Not only did the room now seem more stable and secure, but also it seemed that chi was freer to move around instead of getting “smushed” up against a wall.
  • Furniture arrangement should be carefully considered as well. Time prohibits me from giving lots of examples, so I’ll just mention one for the bedroom. Never have the foot of a bed aligned with an open door. That’s the “death position,” the spot in which the dearly departed were placed before removing them from the home.
  • Texture and pattern count too. Recently my son remarked that he thought the bedroom that he shares with his bride is a little too feminine. I reminded him that once you get married, there are all sorts of compromises, one being the home décor. While he’s absolutely right in that the furniture and the bedding are of lighter colors (blue, yellow, and white), the living room of the apartment is more masculine in that the furniture is leather. The maps are framed in dark wood. What I’m saying is that the apartment is a good combination of yin and yang.
  • How we use space should also be considered. In the home that we recently moved from, there was a wide hall straight down the middle of the house. In fact, a person standing at the front door could look directly to the back door. Ummm. Not good. Chi could easily come in, but it swished down the hall quickly and was out the door. What did we do? We put a bench at the end of the hall to divert the flow of energy, and most of the time I kept a glass paned door dividing the living room from the hall closed.
  • I’m getting a little carried away here (this stuff is so exciting to consider), but I just have to mention tables before getting back to work (the kind I get paid for). My sweet husband and I bought our cute little oak dining room table at a yard sale, and we both love it. It’s round unless company’s coming, and then we insert the leaf, thus making it a large oval. According to the feng shui experts, round is not good! They say the energy swirls around so quickly that the dining/socializing experience is not as pleasant as it would be with a square or oval table. Well, we LOVE the table, and to calm the swirling chi, we bought four (there’s that stable number again) leather wasabi (great color, great word) with high backs. It’s the coolest room!

More on this later. For now, let’s just say that whatever makes you feel comfortable, supported, secure, and pleasant is what you should incorporate in your home, office, yard, and even car. If you want to know more about the ancient Chinese practice of feng shui, there are beaucoup books on the subject. For now, share some ideas that you have about making your environment more appealing.


Author: jayne bowers

*married with children, stepchildren, grandchildren, in-laws, ex-laws, and a host of other family members and fabulous friends *semi-retired psychology instructor at two community colleges *writer

13 thoughts on “Feng Shui Chic”

  1. Great post Jayne! There are some homes I immediately feel “at home” or comfortable in and others I can’t get out fast enough. I love my home and of course, you know I have to come and touch your stuff when I am there! I have been in some of the “humblest abodes” and felt better there than some of the perfect, McMansions!

  2. Me too! In fact, I was just thinking of a day last summer when DH and I went to the Cherokee Indian reservation and did the tourist thing. We went into some awesome dwellings, a couple of which I didn’t want to leave. At the same time, I’ve been in my share of McMansions that left me feeling cold.

  3. do you know, i don;t know how you can considered furniture arranging as spiritual, but trust marla jayne to find a way…this is a girl that was made in the preexistance for chocolate while all the world around her falls apart

    Barlow, About that furniture thing, I try to make sure that chairs and couches are arranged in a way to stimulate conversation and a feeling of togetherness among people.

  4. Marla Jayne, thank you for visiting my blog and leaving such an encouraging comment. Your post really illustrates one of the things I was trying to say; environment is important!

  5. What a great post! Thanks so much for sharing. It’s amazing what you can do with Feng Shui, isn’t it? Why not find your spirit in the way your home looks and feels?

    You’re so right. A home should reflect the personalities and spirits of all who dwell within.

  6. I always find a clutter free home helps me think better. I can’t tell you how DELIGHTED I am that Chris and I are only moving things in slowly with care as to where they are located. (Right now most of the stuff is in the garage…still organized!)

    Hayden, With a new home to make distinctly your own (and your husband’s too of course), I just know you’d appreciate some of the feng shui suggestions.

  7. Interesting Jayne. I’ll have to read up on this subject a bit more. I find that light airy entrance ways into the home makes me feel comfortable; and of course non-clutter. But sometimes I visit older people and it takes me straight back to the days I visited my grandma. There is that smell of something good cooking; neatly arranged clutter – mismatched pillows; momentos and figurines from years ago to present – photos of everyone yellowed black and whites to new color prints on the walls and on the end tables – with no matching frames to boot. I must say, when I visit these homes, I feel most comfortable and could easily talk all day then take an afternoon nap with my head on one of the mismatched pillows; although I prefer roomy areas for my everyday living.

    Thanks for introducing me to the subject of Chineese feng shui – I shall be reading up on it to highten my spirits!

    Peace, Light and Love,

  8. what is a light airy entrance…is that when you leave the door open so the flies can get in????????do figureines give that spiritual feeling to a home???i just look at them and see price tags……and roomy areas for everyday living , is that something like airy??? or is it that all the furniture has been moved out so you can clean the carpet

  9. Cordie, One of the things I always enjoy about your posts is the detail. I can just see, smell, and “feel” the rooms that you describe. Interesting, it’s not that everything has to match or coordinate perfectly but that somehow it all “comes together” to provide the feelings of comfort and security. Feng Shui experts would especially like the framed photographs of family and friends.

  10. Barlow, You’re such a GUY! I bet all of the females reading this would know exactly what an airy entrance is. Maybe you could investigate and get back to us!

  11. Thanks for your comments Everyone. I tried leaving responses under/with the ones you posted, but it didn’t seem to work out the way it does when Hayden does it. Any suggestions on how to do this?

  12. When I am in the ‘comments’ section, I select the ‘name’ of the person leaving the comment and it brings me to the editable section. (I found this one by accident after the changed the layout.)

    Click on the name vs. their email or website.

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